Moving to a new country can be difficult in many ways. Expats are particularly vulnerable to certain elements of a new society, which can be both unscrupulous and unavoidable.
'Forewarned is forearmed', and expats must be aware of their vulnerability, especially if they have just arrived to a foreign country. Another aspect to think about is how to take things slowly when meeting new people. It will be helpful to become a part of a social network of other new expats, which can help in finding a way to integrate more easily into a new society.
When settling in their new home, expats often feel excitement, but also fear. While dealing with challenges and getting familiar with a new culture and environment, expats sometimes may become an obvious target for undesired treatment, such as being abused or taken advantage of. Any new expat can be a potential victim, however, there are ways to deal with and overcome a situation in which you feel vulnerable.
The best advice is not to refuse help when it is offered, but to take things slowly when meeting new people, especially those who seem a bit too friendly. You may let people in your life, but only to the extent that you allow. Take one step at a time in making new friendships abroad.
During the adjustment process, or even before the move itself, it can be useful to use the Internet to get familiar with your new country and culture. One helpful source for such research is Move One's award-winning Expat Eye, offering virtual video city guides in a number of expat hubs around the world. You can also become a part of a local online expat community; there are many expats out there in the same situation, trying to fit in, and forums or expat social networks are perfect to exchange tips and practical advice. Get to know other expats in the area and learn from their experiences. It is very important not to limit yourself only to contacts with people from your neighborhood, or a local café. Try to interact with as many people as possible, so that you gain information from varied sources. This way you may be able to learn more and quicker, and understand things from various perspectives.
Expats may easily avoid becoming victims if they know more and seek to learn about their new environment. Beginner's mistakes are common, but if you are aware of your own vulnerability, you may adapt sooner than you ever thought you would.